Verse by Verse

¹² And we urge you, brethren, to recognize those who labor among you, and are over you in the Lord and admonish you,

¹³ and to esteem them very highly in love for their work’s sake. Be at peace among yourselves.

recognize (v.12) = know, be aware, understand — with the sense of appreciating and valuing

those who labor (v.12) = “those who are laboring”

are over (v.12) = stand before, lead, manage, rule, care for, attend to (see 1 Timothy 3:4-5, where the same Greek word is translated “rule”)

in the Lord (v.12) — indicates the authority and scope of these rulers.

admonish (v.12) = noutheteo, lit. “to put into the mind,” “training by word”; hence it is used, (a) of instruction, (b) of warning. It is thus distinguished from paideuo = to correct by discipline, “training by act.”

The difference between “admonish” and “teach” seems to be that whereas the former has mainly in view the things that are wrong and call for warning, the latter has to do chiefly with the impartation of positive truth. — Vine, page 84

esteem (v.13) = to think, consider

very highly (v.13) = exceedingly, superabundantly.

love (v.13) = agape

for their work’s sake ( v.13) = because of their work (not because of personal reasons or office)

⁹ For God did not appoint us to wrath, but to obtain salvation through our Lord Jesus Christ,

¹⁰ who died for us, that whether we wake or sleep, we should live together with Him.

¹¹ Therefore comfort each other and edify one another, just as you also are doing.

for (v.9) — the reason for our “hope of salvation” in v.8.

not (v.9) — emphasized by its position in the Greek

us (v.9) — those who are not in darkness, those who have believed that Christ died and rose again (1 Thessalonians 4:14).

wrath (v.9) — the judgments to come in the Tribulation (Romans 2:5; Romans 5:9; 1 Thessalonians 1:10).

salvation (v.9) — here, salvation from God’s wrath in the Tribulation

through (v.9) = by means of

who died for us (v.10) — as 1 Thessalonians is the first book written by Paul, this is the earliest written statement in Scripture that Christ died on the behalf of men, a doctrine revealed first to Paul.

that (v.10) = in order that — denoting purpose — He died that we should live together with Him

wake or sleep (v.10) — from both immediate context and from Paul’s use of these terms in other places, it’s possible that he’s referring to watching and being sober or being lax and indifference. Once we are saved, our salvation is assured, whether we are living soberly or living indifferently. But Paul was also talking about believers who are alive and have died at the Rapture in this passage, so it’s possible that is his meaning here. Or maybe both? Here’s Vine’s take:

The subjects of the rapture are described in 4:17 without qualification or limitation further than this, that they belong to Christ (1 Corinthians 15:23). The spiritual condition and attainment of believers vary widely, but every believer has spiritual life, however meager his spiritual attainment may be, however low his spiritual condition may fall. That the lax and indifferent will suffer loss is elsewhere plainly taught by Paul (1 Corinthians 3:15; 9:27; 2 Corinthians 5:10, e.g.), but in this place he does not deal with that aspect of the subject. He does, however, put beyond question that the rapture of believers at the Parousia will not depend on their condition or attainment but solely on the death of the Lord Jesus for them. — Vine, page 81.

comfort (v.11) = encourage, to call one to be close beside

edify (v.11) = build up, help to be strong

⁵ You are all sons of light and sons of the day. We are not of the night nor of darkness.

⁶ Therefore let us not sleep, as others do, but let us watch and be sober.

⁷ For those who sleep, sleep at night, and those who get drunk are drunk at night.

⁸ But let us who are of the day be sober, putting on the breastplate of faith and love, and as a helmet the hope of salvation.

Paul, in these verses, explains why the Day of the Lord won’t overtake believers like a thief.

all (v.5) — emphasized in the Greek — what Paul is about to write is true of all believers

sons (v.5) — describes the relationship between believers and God in virtue of their position in Him and emphasizes the dignity of that position

sons of the day (v.5) — continuing on the theme of light and not a reference to the Day of the Lord

we (v.5) — for a similar transition from “ye” to “we” see 1 Thessalonians 4:4 and 7. The underlying thought seems to be: “that which characterizes you is common to all believers, we are not of night nor of darkness.” Through the remaining verses of this section the writer uses the first personal pronoun. — Vine, page 76.

of the night (v.5) = belonging to the night

sleep (v.5) = katheudo, a different word than koimaomai, which is translated “sleep” (death) in  1 Thessalonians 4:13 — Katheudo can mean physical sleep, but here, it is moral sleep, spiritual sleep, indifference to spiritual things (Ephesians 5:14)

let us watch (v.6) = mental alertness, vigilance against a foe, the opposite of sleep

sober (v.6) = lit. “freedom from intoxicants” but used in Scripture metaphorically for “freedom from credulity and excitability — stability, the opposite of drunkenness

those who sleep, sleep at night (v.7) — In this statement of the ordinary fact of human experience the metaphorical language of the preceding verses is explained. As sleep is natural in the night, so indifference to God characterizes man in his unregenerate state. But for regenerate man to be spiritually asleep is to seem to be of the night, not of the day, of the world, not of Christ. — Vine, page 78.

we (v.8) — emphasized in the Greek for contrast

putting on (v.8) = clothing one’s self

The difference in the tenses of the verbs is suggestive, for whereas that of “be sober” is continuous, that of “putting on” is momentary. Believers are to continue in sobriety, but to exhort them to continue putting armor on would be to assume that on occasion they might lay it aside; this the Christian may never do. Hence the “point” tense, signifying “put your armor on, and keep it on.” — Vine, page 78.

breastplate (v.8) = a piece of armor which protects the body between the neck and the waist — Ephesians 6:14-17

hope (v.8) = expectation, trust, confidence

Until the Lord comes the believer will be surrounded by the enervating influences of a world bent on ease and pleasure, hence his eye is directed to the future in order to encourage him to resist the spirit of the age in which he lives. At Ephesians 6:17 “hope” is omitted, since there the believer is represented as engaged in conflict, and salvation as a present experience. — Vine, pages 78-79

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Paul is not merely saying that “we” are of the light while “they” are of the darkness, but that since we are “the [sons] of the day” and “not of the night” (v.5), we belong to another category entirely. We will have been “caught up” and “the day of salvation” will have been brought to a close when the thief comes “in the night” to plunder this Christ-rejecting world.

And it is on this basis that we are exhorted not to sleep but to watch and be sober (v.6). We are not instructed to be awake and ready to repel the thief, for the day of the Lord cannot overtake us as a thief, for the simple reason that the day of the Lord will come (as a thief in the night) after we have been caught away (1 Thessalonians 5:3-4).  Thus the apostle exhorts us to “watch and be sober” for the best of all reasons: because the dark night of the Tribulation has not yet come and for us it is still day. “… we are not of the night, nor of darkness. THEREFORE let us not sleep as do others; but let us watch and be sober” (vs. 5-6).

According to v.7, nighttime is the time when people sleep or indulge in revelry, but for us it is not night, thus “… let us, who are of the day, be sober, putting on the breastplate of faith and love; and for an helmet, the hope of salvation” (v.8).

What is this “hope of salvation” of which he speaks in v.8? Is it our salvation from the penalty of sin? Not exactly; it is our salvation from “the wrath to come” and indeed, our complete salvation (cf. Romans 8:23; 13:11), for again he refers to the coming of the Lord for us (vs. 9-10). — Stam, pages 94-95.

1 But concerning the times and the seasons, brethren, you have no need that I should write to you.

² For you yourselves know perfectly that the day of the Lord so comes as a thief in the night.

³ For when they say, “Peace and safety!” then sudden destruction comes upon them, as labor pains upon a pregnant woman. And they shall not escape.

⁴ But you, brethren, are not in darkness, so that this Day should overtake you as a thief.

but (v.1) — marking a change in emphasis from salvation for those in Christ to judgment for those who aren’t

the times and the seasons (v.1) — These words, chronos and kairos, are synonyms, and while they have much in common and are used interchangeably on occasion, when they are used together they supplement each the other and hence are to be distinguished in meaning. In the New Testament they appear together again only in Acts 1:7, and in LXX only in Daniel 2:21.

Broadly speaking, chronos, “time,” a) implies duration, whether longer or shorter, or b) refers to the date of an occurrence, whether in the past, or in the future. Kairos, “season,” refers to the characteristics of a period.

Here, “times” refers to the length of the interval before the Parousia takes place, and to the length of time it will occupy; “seasons” refers to the characteristics of the periods before, during, and after the Parousia. — Vine, page 71.

you yourselves know (v.2) — “know” is knowledge gained by observation, or, in this case, by listening to Paul’s teaching when he was in Thessalonica

perfectly (v.2) = accurately

The closing verses of chapter 4 deal with a “mystery,” a secret, first revealed through Paul (4:15; cf. 1 Corinthians 15:51), while the opening verses of chapter 5 deal with prophetic truths which had been proclaimed for many centuries. Indeed, the first two verses contain three familiar prophetic phrases: “the times and the seasons,” “the day of the Lord,”and “a thief in the night.”

The Thessalonian believers needed more light on the truth of the Rapture (3:10; 4:13-18), where as they understood “perfectly,” or accurately, the truth about “the day of the Lord,” so that Paul could say to them concerning this subject: “Ye have no need that I write unto you” (5:1-2). — Stam, page 84.

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Day of the Lord (v.2) — Generally speaking, the term refers to the time when the day of man, or “the times of the Gentiles,” will be brought to an end and “the Lord alone shall be exalted” (Isaiah 2:11, 17). But it will include more than the actual return and reign of Christ. It will include the prophesied tribulation period, during which God will bring Gentile rule to an end.

The seven years of the Tribulation will begin with the ride on the white horse (Revelation 6:1-2), evidently Antichrist (cf Revelation 19:11), who goes forth “conquering and to conquer.” Like Antiochus Epiphanes, he will “come in peaceably, and obtain the kingdom by flatteries” (Daniel 11:21). All will go well for him and he will bring to the world a kind of peace that will win him universal allegiance. “Peace and safety”! the world will exclaim.

But of the rider on the next horse we read, “and power was given to him that sat thereon to take peace from the earth” (Revelation 6:4). Then follow war, famine and death (vs. 3-8). — Stam, pages 89-91.

as a thief in the night (v.2) — the word “night” is connected to “thief,” not to “Day of the Lord” and so has nothing to do with when the event will occur — 2 Peter 3:10

They knew accurately that the Day of the Lord will come as a thief — that nobody knows when it will come (Matthew 24:36).

they (v.3) — those who have not trusted in Christ

Paul’s careful alternation of the pronouns “they” and “ye” throughout this passage is sufficient to show that he never conceived of the Church, the body of Christ, as remaining on earth during the time of wrath in the Day of the Lord. — Scofield, page 1293.

safety (v.3) = security from disturbance, mental or physical

Peace and safety (v.3) are not meant to describe the period prior to the Day of the Lord, but instead describe what those who have rejected God’s Word are saying about the period and their freedom from God.

destruction (v.3) — olethros = ruin, occurs in the New Testament only in writings of Paul. In 1 Corinthians 5:5 it is used of the discipline of an erring believer with a view to his spiritual profit; in 1 Timothy 6:9 of the consequences of the indulgence of the flesh; here and in 2 Thessalonians 1:9, of the effect upon men of the calamities which are to accompany the revelation of the Lord Jesus at the opening of the Day of the Lord. The word means, not the destruction of being, but of well being, not annihilation, the putting an end to the existence of a person or thing, but its ruin so far as the purpose of its existence is concerned. — Vine, pages 74-75.

comes upon them (v.3) = lit. “to stand over,” suggesting violence, as when an armed man stands over a defenseless victim.

as labor pains upon a pregnant woman (v.3) — indicating suddenness and inevitableness (Jeremiah 13:21; Luke 21:34)

The woes preceding the inauguration of the Messianic age are called in Jewish literature heblo sel masiah (“the birthpangs of Messiah”). — Guthrie, page 1160

escape (v.3) = flee away

but you (v.4) — “you” has the place of emphasis in the Greek, marking the contrast between “you” and “they” — Reversing the “but” in v.1, this marks a change in emphasis from judgment for those who aren’t in Christ to salvation to those who are.

darkness (v.4) — spiritual darkness

1 Thessalonians 5:1-3, with its “day of the Lord,” coming as “a thief in the night,” bringing “sudden destruction,” is strikingly like our Lord’s predictions in Matthew 24 concerning the “great tribulation” and His return to earth to reign.

But this was not the problem that troubled the Thessalonian believers. At this point, certainly, they were not concerned with Antichrist and the Great Tribulation. Their concern was over their loved ones who had died in Christ. Would these now miss the Rapture? And Paul’s answer is that these shall rise first to join them “who are alive and remain unto the coming of the Lord” for His saints. Hence, concerning this blessed event he says, “Wherefore comfort one another with these words” (4:18). — Stam, pages 85-86

¹⁶ For the Lord Himself will descend from heaven with a shout, with the voice of an archangel, and with the trumpet of God. And the dead in Christ will rise first.

¹⁷ Then we who are alive and remain shall be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air. And thus we shall always be with the Lord.

¹⁸ Therefore comfort one another with these words.

Himself (v.16) — in the position of emphasis in the original

shout (v.16) = a word of command, often used for military commands

archangel (v.16) = angel of the highest rank, chief angel — The word that forms the prefix here, “arche,” is translated “principalities”  or “rulers” in Colossians 1:16. — Michael is the only archangel mentioned in Scripture (Jude 1:9).

Vine believes the descriptions in verse 16 may all describe a single sound, “with a shout in the archangel’s voice, even with the voice of the trump of God.”

dead in Christ (v.16) — those who sleep (vs. 13-15) — “in Christ” refers only to believers who have died. The resurrection of the unsaved to judgment happens at a different time.

caught up (v.17) — conveys the idea of force suddenly exercised — 1 Corinthians 15:51-53 — the word “rapture” comes from the Latin for “caught up”

Elsewhere it is stated concerning the dead in Christ that they shall be raised in incorruptible bodies, i.e., bodies not liable to decay which sooner or later reduces to its elements every living organism of which mankind has any experience. This change is described in a series of contrasts in 1 Corinthians 15:42-44, and further in vs. 52-54.

And concerning the living believers it is stated that, in as much as in its present natural condition the body cannot enter upon its heavenly inheritance, their bodies shall be changed, “in a moment, in the twinkling of an eye” and without passing through the experience of death; for “this mortal [body] must put on immortality,” 1 Corinthians 15:47-49; Philippians 3:20-21. — Vine, page 69

comfort (v.18) = encourage, exhort, be an advocate for

To go beyond this passage for a moment … I believe the Judgment Seat of Christ, where believers with be rewarded for their good works, will occur at the Rapture.

I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith. Finally, there is laid up for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will give to me on that Day, and not to me only but also to all who have loved His appearing (2 Timothy 4:7-8).

¹³ But I do not want you to be ignorant, brethren, concerning those who have fallen asleep, lest you sorrow as others who have no hope.

¹⁴ For if we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so God will bring with Him those who sleep in Jesus.

¹⁵ For this we say to you by the word of the Lord, that we who are alive and remain until the coming of the Lord will by no means precede those who are asleep.

fallen asleep (v.13) — John 11:11-15 — referring to the death of the body, the time between physical death and the physical resurrection. The soul doesn’t sleep but goes immediately to be with the Lord when the believer dies (2 Corinthians 5:8; Philippians 1:23)

those who have fallen asleep (v.13) — tense is “that are lying asleep” — The Thessalonian believers were apparently expecting the Lord to return at any moment and were concerned about one or more of their congregation who had died after Paul left. — 1 Corinthians 15:20

The object of the metaphor is to suggest that as the sleeper does not cease to exist while his body sleeps, so the dead person continues to exist despite his absence from the region in which those who remain can communicate with him, and that, as sleep is known to be temporary, so the death of the body will be found to be. Sleep has its waking, death will have its resurrection.

When the physical frame of the Christian, “the earthy house of our tabernacle,” 2 Corinthians 5:1, is dissolved and returns to the dust, the spiritual part of his highly complex being, the seat of personality, departs to be with Christ.

The “unclothed,” or “naked,” (2 Corinthians 5:3-4) state of the believer is not final, for man without the body is not complete. When “this corruptible,” the decayed and crumbled body, “shall have put on incorruption,” then, but not till then, shall the victory of Christ over death be manifestly complete (1 Corinthians 15:54-57).

The early Christians adopted the word koimeterion (which was used by the Greeks of a rest house for strangers) for the place of interment of the bodies of their departed; thence the English word “cemetery” = “the sleeping place,” is derived. — Vine, pages 62-63.

hope (v.13) — 1 Corinthians 15:19

if (v.14) = ei — “if, as is the case,” or “since”

died (v.14) — Death, in Scripture, is used of:

a) the separation of the spiritual from the material part of man, i.e., of the soul from the body, and the consequent cessation of the functions of the latter and its disintegration into dust: Adam’s body died at the age of 930 years (Genesis 3:19; 5:5; cp. Acts 5:10. Death, in this sense, is an experience that awaits men (Hebrews 9:27).

b) the separation of man from God, cp. Romans 8:6: Adam died in the day (i.e., when, cp. Ezekiel 33:12) he disobeyed God (Genesis 2:17), and all mankind “descended from Adam by ordinary generation” are born in the same state of separation from God.

Death is the opposite of life. Said of man, life is never = existence; death is never = nonexistence. It is stated explicitly that God created man, i.e., called man into existence (Genesis 1:27), but Scripture nowhere  states that man will ever cease to exist. — Vine, page 64.

Verse 14 reads “if we believe, as we do, that Jesus died and rose again, even so we believe also that …”

those who sleep (v.14) = tense is “fell asleep”

in Jesus (v.14) = through Jesus — “those who fell asleep will God, through Jesus, bring with Him,” i.e. with Jesus. — Vine, page 66

by (v.15) = on the authority of

word of the Lord (v.15) — Paul is referring to a new, direct revelation to him from God. There is no previously-written passage of Scripture that can be a source of what Paul is about to say. That’s why, in 1 Corinthians 15:51, he refers to this truth as a “mystery.”

precede (v.15) — with the sense of “have any advantage over”

⁹ But concerning brotherly love you have no need that I should write to you, for you yourselves are taught by God to love one another;

¹⁰ and indeed you do so toward all the brethren who are in all Macedonia. But we urge you, brethren, that you increase more and more;

¹¹ that you also aspire to lead a quiet life, to mind your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we commanded you,

¹² that you may walk properly toward those who are outside, and that you may lack nothing.

brotherly love (v.9) = philadelphia, as in Romans 12:10; Hebrews 13:1; 1 Peter 1:22 and 2 Peter 1:7

no need that I should write to you (v.9) — They were already showing brotherly love. But this also seems to be Paul’s way of saying that they weren’t already following his teachings on sexual purity.

taught by God (v.9) = theodidaktoi, lit. “God-taught persons”

love (v.9, 2nd use) = agape

increase more and more (v.10) — 1 Thessalonians 3:12

aspire (v.10) = make it your ambition, strive restlessly after — The Greek word is translated “made it my aim” in Romans 15:20 and 2 Corinthians 5:9.

quiet (v.11) = to be at rest

lead a quiet life (v.11) — 2 Thessalonians 3:12

mind your own business (v.11) — 2 Thessalonians 3:11

At Thessalonica, apparently, the “trivial round, the common task,” was neglected by some on the plea of the superior claims of religion, a vicious idea that has wrought much mischief since, notwithstanding its emphatic and repeated repudiation by the apostle, cp. Titus 3:14.

The life of the Christian cannot be divided as into secular and sacred, cp. Colossians 3:23-24, the whole is to be lived for God always. Moreover, idlers, neglecting their own, easily become “meddlers in other men’s matters,” lit., “overseers of others’ concerns,” 1 Peter 4:15, and not infrequently indolent dependents on other men’s bounty as well. — Vine, page 61.

work with your own hands (v.11) — In many pagan religions, there is a large priesthood who do no work but rely entirely upon the largess of others to live. Paul preached against this both in words and in person example (Acts 18:1-3). In the Thessalonians’ case, apparently some were so fired up about the return of Christ that they stopped working, making it necessary for others to provide for them.

honestly (v.12) = becomingly, decently

those who are outside (v.12) — non-Christians — 1 Corinthians 5:12-13; Colossians 4:5; 1 Timothy 3:7

that you may lack nothing (v.12) — so that they can provide for the needs of themselves and their families (1 Timothy 5:8). Paul wrote more on this in 2 Thessalonians 3:6-15.

Perhaps Timothy had reported to him [Paul] an incipient tendency on the part of some to forbear working and to become busybodies (See 2 Thessalonians 3:11-12). It may be that they felt they were justified in just waiting for the Lord to come. In any case, the Apostle urges them to study to be quiet, to mind their own business, as we say, and to “eat their own bread” (v.12) And all this, that they might “walk honestly toward them that are without,” and “have lack of nothing.” If they should not heed his exhortation they might well soon find themselves lacking the necessities of life and owing bills to “them that are without.” Such lack of integrity and self-reliance can only dishonor God and the message He has committed t our trust.

How wholesome and down-to-earth are the Apostle’s exhortations here as to integrity, industry and self-reliance, and what respect such conduct is bound to earn for one who would be used of God. — Stam, page 57.

⁶ that no one should take advantage of and defraud his brother in this matter, because the Lord is the avenger of all such, as we also forewarned you and testified.

⁷ For God did not call us to uncleanness, but in holiness.

⁸ Therefore he who rejects this does not reject man, but God, who has also given us His Holy Spirit.

take advantage (v.6) = step over, go beyond — the context here is sexual immorality

defraud (v.6) = covet, take advantage, with the idea of wanting something so much that you defraud another for your own gain — in the context, this is probably referring to coveting another person sexually to the point of taking advantage of him or her

brother (v.6) — No place else does Paul use this word of mankind in general. He always uses it of fellow believers. Some commentaries question which is meant here.

in this matter (v.6) — the context is sexual immorality — Paul’s point is probably that having sex outside of marriage is defrauding a brother of his wife (Exodus 20:17).

avenger (v.6) = one who deals justice, one who justly exacts a penalty — In Greek, frequently used of one who is a special advocate or champion of a particular city.

testified (v.6) = solemnly affirm — an intensified form of the verb translated “charged” in 1 Thessalonians 2:11.

for (v.7) — Paul is listing a second reason for possessing one’s vessel in honor — because God, who has done all for us, calls us to holiness. (The first reason is that God will exact a penalty.)

God … call[s] us in holiness (v.7) — tense indicates a definite act in the past

therefore (v.8) — indicates Paul’s concluding statement resulting from the argument has made in verses 1-7

rejects (v.8) = sets aside, disregards

has also given (v.8) — in the present tense, “gives”

³ For this is the will of God, your sanctification: that you should abstain from sexual immorality;

⁴ that each of you should know how to possess his own vessel in sanctification and honor,

⁵ not in passion of lust, like the Gentiles who do not know God;

this is the will of God (v.3) — Many Christians search for the will of God for their lives, but the search is unnecessary. God has clearly told us in Scripture what His will for us is. This verse is just one instance. (See 1 Thessalonians 5:18 for another instance.)

sanctification (v.3) = set apart as sacred, consecrate, dedicated — 1 Thessalonians 5:23

Both in our salvation and in our walk it has been God’s purpose, not merely to set us apart from the world, but to set us apart as sacred to Himself. It is by no means a negative imposition of “dos” and “don’ts,” but a positive one speaking of God’s love to us more than of ours to Him.

It is with this in mind that the apostle exhorts the believers at Thessalonica to keep morally pure. He does not say, “This is the will of God, that ye should abstain from fornication,” but “This is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should [for this reason] abstain from fornication.” The thought should be, “How can I so grieve the One who loved me enough to die for me, and desires me for His very own?” — Stam, page 54.

sexual immorality (v.3) = porneia, the root of the English word “pornography,” which is derived from perna?, “to sell off” — properly, a selling off (surrendering) of sexual purity

know (v.4) = knowledge gained by observation

possess (v.4) = to acquire, as money, so “to acquire mastery over”

vessel (v.4) — a vessel or implement of any kind … It is used of the body in 1 Samuel 21:5 (Septuagint), and, with the addition of “earthen,” in 2 Corinthians 4:7; in 1 Peter 3:7 it is used of a wife.

If by “vessel” the body is understood, 1 Corinthians 9:27, “I buffet my body and bring it into bondage” may be compared, and “neither present your members unto sin as instruments” in Romans 6:13, since in such passages the body is looked upon as belonging to and as used by the man who dwells within it.

If, however, by “vessel” the wife is understood, then the meaning is that of 1 Corinthians 7:2. The apostle is commending an honorable entry upon the estate of holy matrimony, and he goes on, (v.5) to exhort to an honorable maintenance of that estate. — Vine, page 58.

It is my opinion that Paul is referring to the individual believer and his or her body in this instance. I see nothing in the context that would indicate that he has “wife” in view here. Stam takes this view:

Our bodies are containers, as it were, either of what is good or of what is bad, and each believer should learn to possess his vessel as one who is precious to God, one who will bring Him due honor. In 2 Timothy 2:21 the apostle states:

If a man therefor purge himself from these, he shall be a vessel unto honor, sanctified, and meet for the Master’s use, and prepared unto every good work.

It is important to bear in mind that we merely inhabit these bodies. We are merely tenants who should possess these vessels in sanctification and honor, for a bad tenant can soon ruin a man’s house. A good tenant, however, will care for it so that, while it naturally grows older, it will still be in good condition. — Stam, page 55.

honor (v.4) = to treat something as though it has value

passion of lust (v.5) — The word for passion was used by the Greeks in either a good or bad sense. In Scripture, it generally refers to “strong feelings which are not guided by God.” Lust has a very similar meaning but is generally used for “a desire for something forbidden.” I think Paul is referring to that sense in which one can become passionate for the feeling of lust, an unrestrained desire to indulge in illicit behavior.

know (v.5) = perceive — The word can also be translated “recognize,” or “appreciate.”

1 Finally then, brethren, we urge and exhort in the Lord Jesus that you should abound more and more, just as you received from us how you ought to walk and to please God;

² for you know what commandments we gave you through the Lord Jesus.

finally (v.1) = lit. “for the rest” — marks a transition in subject matter

then (v.1) = therefore

urge (v.1) = ask, beg, make an earnest request

exhort (v.1) = encourage — In the Greek, it reads “We beseech you, and we exhort in the Lord Jesus”

to walk and to please God (v.1) — “to walk, even to please God”

walk (v.1) — Colossians 1:10 — That you may walk worthy of the Lord, fully pleasing Him, being fruitful in every good work and increasing in the knowledge of God.

commandments (v.2) = charges — used only of commands received from a superior and transmitted to others

through the Lord Jesus (v.2) — Paul’s charges to the Thessalonians came from the Lord